Definitioncome out of the closet, to declare openly one's homosexuality; to live true to one's sexuality.
Synonyms: accept one's sexuality; (be) brought out; discover one's gender; drop one's beads; drop one's hairpins; go public; jump out of the closet; jump out with both feet; lay it out; learn a new way; to out; reveal one's homosexuality; reveal being gay; show one's true colors; tell the folks; wear one's badge.
See also: be outed; wear a cut-glass veil; wear a mourning veil; stay in the closet.
(1) Bruce Rodgers (?): ' He's a natural... he came out the day he was born.'
(2) R. Reisner. Graffiti. Two Thousand Years of Wall Writing : ' Better latent than never. '
4. To bring one's secret beliefs or practices into the open. In Practical Magic (1999), Sally (Sandra Bullock), whom has always been suspected of being a witch, calls 13 women to form a coven and the word goes out: ' Sally just came out.' And this is considered: ' A fabulous affirmation.'
5. To discover or accept one's penchant for sadomasochism; to acknowledge one's deviant sexual feelings.
Quote: Sabra Cameron (Frances Dee) in Wheel of Fortune (1941): ' One of our debs. She's coming out next week.'
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