1. Conventionally sexual; plain, ordinary and bland as opposed to deviant or kinky. Normal, conforming, conventional, straight, non-kinky sex, like the plainest flavor, vanilla ice cream. SYNONYMS: bambi; non-kinky; straight.
3. In fetishistim and BDSM, descriptive of relatively conventional forms of sexual activity, the lighter, more innocent side of sexuality in contrast to sadomasochistic and fetichist sex play.
4. A white person.
QUOTE: Coco (Irene Cara) and Hilary Van Doren (Antonia Franceschi) talking about Leroy (Gene Anthony Ray) in Fame (1980): -- Coco: ' Look, I'm not 'my dear'. You can fuck 'my dear'.' -- Hilary: ' Well, thank you. That might be fun.' -- Coco: ' That might be impossible. He's not into vanilla.' -- Hilary: ' It might be a nice change from black cherry.' -- Coco: ' The darker the berry the sweeter the juice, honey.' -- Hilary: ' Yes, but who wants diabetes.'